Saturday, March 3, 2007

14

Hehe....well. Friends, this is my 14th blog, nd I am riting it the fourth time,the first one was on feb 14, next one feb 23...which did hurt a frnd of mine bit harder, next one on 26, in which i revealed myself, bt someone didn't like it at all, saying dat i 'm not at all like dat,nd all..neways, it was my decision to delete dat one too,....nd one more thing frnds,
me not gonna delete dis one...:D
Well, dis one is sumthin' which seems funny, but, u kno....
Ok..Ok ...let's get into the subject.....

It' s all about proposals....yeah...but here we take only one case....'A boy proposing gal'...And y it gets rejected (not always)....but it happens....y so??

Ok...lemme put down ma views on the topic....nd at the end i ll tell u ma experience....lols ;)

There are lots of reasons for a girl to reject a proposal....let's see dem one by one.

1)"U kno, my parents....I am committed a lot to them...I jez can't disobey them...And i'll only marry a person whom they will suggest...they 'll find for me....i'm sorry...i jez can't...."
2)"Ohhh...how can i??? U are jez a frnd of mine.....I jez can't imagine u like dat......I love u ...bt as a frnd....nd i need u tooo...bt as a frnd.....i do care u tooo....bt as a......"

3)"U kno one thing, i am damn orthodox, nd my parents too....So I dun believe , u kno...this will happen....So i'll simply obey them....whoeva dey'll find for me , i'll accept him...."
4) Ok...now this one too ....his charecter (kayyiliripp) does count a lot,shud be luvin',caring, frndly and all dat....if d boy is trash, looted or crape or stupid...gals will simply say, "NO, enne kittillaa...poyi pani nokk!!!"

5) He shud be handsome,well settled and infallible....atleast, koora look aakaruthu...[see this is applicable to only a few girls....usually, gals dun believe in external beauty....bt we, boyz do believe , kettoo , :D]
6)"My path is different, not as urs, dun ruin ur life, u 've a good future....plzz leave me alone..."

7)" Holyyyy shitt.....wat the heck.....see i ll tell u, dis LOVE,ROMANCE,AFFAIR kinda things are stupid....dere is nuthin like dat....dey are simply an illusion, dere is no love ,only INFATUATION is dere......i dun belive in love....crapy things...,nd overall dey won't get fulfilled....nd den u will break into pieces.....dun even think abt......"
8)"Sorry dear, I am already committed!!!!" -GENUINE REPLY....

9)"I wanna study , so plz dun...."
10)" My family background is like, u kno...nd we are of the same age too....so i dun think ma parents will....sorry.."

11)"I LOVE U....BUT I JEZ CAN'T...IT'S ....IT'S JEZ LIKE DAT....DUN ASK ME Y SO....I JEZ..."
12)Dun waste ur time, I won't marry at all...." [:d]....ding!!!

13) Finally....yeah a combination of 2 or more of the above....d one above is an exclusion....it is the most hurting reply....

20 comments:

Anand said...

chumma try chayyanayittu chettayi ini try chayyanda...nd i believe tht if a gal rejects our proposal then tht gal is not worthy of being ours..[:D]..pakshe if u really love tht gal of urs nd can wait then try try n try again until u fall 4 someone else...[:D]...always remember failure is tha steppin stone to success...

Anand said...

and btw the blogs good...well these r xactly tha reasons these gals use...someone educate these females...[:D]

aswathy said...

hehe..njan onnum parayunnillee..mikkavarum ithum deletendi varum :P

Anonymous said...

oduvil poruthayi 8ile katha.ethum eni delete cheyyendi varumo.enthayalum ethe ni eppo paranjathe nannayi...hi hi....

mephisto said...

ILLEDAAAAA....
I WON'T DELETE!!!!!
INI ITHUM PARANJU BLACKMAIL CHEYYAN VAAA NEEYOKKE KOOODI!!!

Anonymous said...

edoo thaan ellam paattakki allee??
aval engaanum ithu kandaallll.........thante kaaryam?!!

Unknown said...

c'mmon man, don't be upset....if somone says NO, just think dat she is not lucky enough 2 get somone like u, and hope she 'll find u one day :)
:) be happy man :)
btw blog is excellent :D

Unknown said...

but all gals are not like what u have mentioned dere!! :D
good going man,keep writing.

pratheesh said...

daaa njaan ee visaayatil valiyaa experience ullaa allalaa.......but one thing i can say u that "nee valiaa alaayii marii".....
ninaakkum oru nallaa pennu kittum........try try try, u wil succeed!!!!

c.H.a.O.s FrEaK said...

Oh now you are talkin !!

Now listen to the PROPOSER [as u call it] ....

there is a lot more to a relation than the "love" n "affection" part, more often than not its the baser instincts of a hunter that plays. Something eludes you, you go after it stronger.

There is nothing like true Love. Most of the things that sound nice are said juz coz they sound nice...nt always coz they mean it.

Unknown said...

To keep it plain n simple..A very gud n keen observer of his surroundings..

Unknown said...

edey edey..... ohhhoooo.... inganeyum oru midhun undo????? shee... nerathe parichayapedendiyirunnu......
anyways.... continue the 'quest 4 ur lady luv'.... i'm sure u'l find success....
aarade ee puthiya kakshi?? 2006ile???? ;)
dedication counterinte help venel parayam tto.... hehee....

Anonymous said...

mon ini try onnum cheyyannda ketttooo
aayadatholam mathi.

ss [:D]

Unknown said...

Kollam mone midhune....Angane minda poocha kalam odachu...Go on man...Go behind tht girl whoever it may be...It is difficult for a girl to fall for a boy very easily...BUT once she falls, then ur life is fun...Eniku valiya experience onnum ella...Ennalum oru vishwasam athre ollu...

Anonymous said...

ok nice one...
gals are like dat, they hav got many reasons to reject.neways WISHING U GR8 SUCCESS :D
keep riting,take care.

Anonymous said...

oho sheri,appo ellam paranja pole
ellam ready aakki tharaam
;)

Anonymous said...

daa enthaa udhesham ninte?

Anonymous said...

well this is wat i thot about ur ' dumb reasons'..............

ppl havin da emotional range f a teaspoom wont understand hw a girl's mind works!

for one thing..if a girl says "no"...then, she wud have turned it ovr nd ovr in her mind, b4 commin to it and dat she is feelin insecure about da whole prospect( its very evident frm da replies!)... so wat do u do wen u get rejected?? u go all sarcastic nd make fun f her?? its like 'washin dirty linen in da public'!

The Rambler said...

Very interesting since u have collected all the available reasons why a girl refuses a guy...:)

Krishna said...

hoo nee itreeemm kidilam aanennu njan karuthee